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That was a more pleasant and also more challenging hour than I'd anticipated. You might have seen your Neville write earlier. He came to me asking how to best tend the cutting you sent him, Alice, dear.
Hawthorne's a fair bit trickier than some, but he and I had a good chat about it and I showed him a few of the methods to keep it stable until he gets back to Augusta's and can plant it properly, and what to watch for. Naturally, I did not push at his story that it came from "a gardening friend".
There were a few times he quite had to stop talking for a minute or two, as the talk turned Hannah. Thankfully, having one's hands in dirt does give one an excuse or two for that kind of thing. It's clear he cared more than a little for her - he's taking it near as hard as her yearmates.
And so I did something I'd not have done for many. We're having a gathering - just the House - to remember her tomorrow night, and I invited him. Quite startled him, I think, when he realised. I do hope the sett will understand, but I think they will, and turning him away seemed quite the wrong thing indeed.
He offered, then, to come in and spend time tomorrow afternoon helping me finish tidying and clearing some space. So if there's anything you'd like me to have an eye or ear toward, I'll have a bit more time with him then.
Hawthorne's a fair bit trickier than some, but he and I had a good chat about it and I showed him a few of the methods to keep it stable until he gets back to Augusta's and can plant it properly, and what to watch for. Naturally, I did not push at his story that it came from "a gardening friend".
There were a few times he quite had to stop talking for a minute or two, as the talk turned Hannah. Thankfully, having one's hands in dirt does give one an excuse or two for that kind of thing. It's clear he cared more than a little for her - he's taking it near as hard as her yearmates.
And so I did something I'd not have done for many. We're having a gathering - just the House - to remember her tomorrow night, and I invited him. Quite startled him, I think, when he realised. I do hope the sett will understand, but I think they will, and turning him away seemed quite the wrong thing indeed.
He offered, then, to come in and spend time tomorrow afternoon helping me finish tidying and clearing some space. So if there's anything you'd like me to have an eye or ear toward, I'll have a bit more time with him then.
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Date: 2012-05-27 01:04 am (UTC)Aurora and Mina are helping out tomorrow, mind you. And of course, Mina both wasn't here last year, and is still finding her feet in some ways. Not that she's not doing quite well, mind.
And Aurora - well, I sometimes forget quite how young she is, really, and that it was the first student she'd known who'd died while she was teaching. But there's personal aspects for her too, with the anniversary, and she's quite right to get a bit of quiet while she had a chance.
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Date: 2012-05-27 01:21 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2012-05-27 01:36 am (UTC)I think the YPL would be a far worse thing if she weren't overseeing it, truly. She's told me more than enough stories from meetings about proposals and personalities to make me sure of that. But at the same time, she's getting less and less sure how long she can hold on, and that's a worry.
She does care deeply about her students. All of us have favourites, of course, but she'll put herself out time and again to be of help when it's needed, or to be as fair as she can possibly manage.
And even her relationship with Rabastan, well. I never thought I'd say it, but he's not only been good to her, but for her, as well. (And there's a sentence I'm sure neither of us ever expected to be saying or reading.)
They're careful, in public, of course, and there's things I don't see. But she swears he not only asks for but takes her advice, regularly, gives her every respect. She's blossomed, since they started dating, in ways I don't think anyone expected, her included.
It makes me wonder what else we're not seeing, honestly. Not just with her, but everywhere.
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Date: 2012-05-27 01:55 am (UTC)And Rabastan Lestrange... from what Neville's said, he's always treated him like any other student.
And I respect that. Very much. Even though you're right, it's not something I'd expect I'd ever say.
I think that there's a lot of good people out there. More than we know. And they don't always look like who we'd expect.
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Date: 2012-05-27 02:12 am (UTC)And you're right about Rabastan's teaching. He's a popular teacher, naturally, given his fame and his field, but I've never heard of him treating a student badly. Firmly, yes, given the dangers of practice, but he's had a surprisingly deft hand with personalities and challenges.
I did ask Aurora about Rabastan and your Neville once, in passing, since of course she knows there's history. She said that's not even her influence, that he was inclined to be fair and let students prove their own worth when he started here.
It does make me sad, though. Wondering about the good people we're not finding, who might be home alone tonight wondering if there's others like them out there in the world, wanting something better than we have.
But that's me getting maudlin again, and perhaps I should find my bed.
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Date: 2012-05-27 02:32 am (UTC)Thank you again.